The most contagious yet pleasurable disease

Being positive gives us better opportunities to meet good people like having better friends, colleagues, boss and so on. Others mistakenly interpret the true meaning of happiness. We have people out there feels upbeat when they have more of something than the less somebody else has of it. Like because they are wealthy, they feel happy as they can buy all the material things they want. Yet, this isn’t the case as it is only a false happiness when we think that we are happy when we are better off than others. When we see people feel positive and joyful despite of their nothingness, it rubs off on us and we can be contaminated with their inner happiness from simple contentment. And if we can define true happiness, the more we can interact with others and easier for them to feel happier too.

The most challenging part being internally happy is when we are surrounded by our ‘not so type’ of people. But being highly motivated to achieve that inner bliss we can at any way resolve to maintain our positivity no matter how many waves of anion push you to shore, you will definitely have some positive effect in your surroundings. It may give you rough road but be persistent. Always remember that we all love happy positive people and happiness attracts more happiness, chain reaction. Be the carrier of the most contagious disease in the whole universe, BLISS!!

Don't Hate us Coz we're BEAUTIFUL

We really can’t please every person, even if we have done nothing against them. We also cannot appreciate everyone. But it is up to us on how to deal with them.

Even if there are people who don’t like us, we still need to treat them as a human. God created us in his like, so if we will compete with their unreasonable judgment on us, it’s not far that we are like them. We might not know what their reason is, but we all have the cause not to be like them for as long as our conscience is crystal clear. Maybe they have heard not quite fair stories about us but that’s the nature of humans, giving more importance on the bad stuffs. Let’s just say that we are all diverse, and our ways are unlike others. So it would be better if we will not take much of our time pretending to like them and just be casual. We must remember that in order to have a positive outlook in life, we must not be near of any negative source. If they are fond of judging, then let’s not take that away from them. But rather, consider it as a lifetime gift for these people. It is at sometimes good not to have everything, at least we have something to look forward to.

What matters is that we must at least not cloud our good perception without any reason and not to be like these people. Let’s be more grown-up and be more professional in civilized way. Let’s accept them as a challenge in strengthening our mindfulness, our attitude, and intellect especially on interpersonal and emotional. They still ought to be treated nice though, so if you think they need help then lend a hand. But don’t expect something in return from them. And let’s us not over analyze their attitude; they may perhaps have inner struggles no one can understand along with the reflection in their behavior.

Nevertheless, appreciate more on the people that love having you around as they won’t give any damn misinterpretation on your actions and verdicts. There are billions of people all over the world waiting to be befriended by a remarkable person like you. So don’t dwell on people who don’t like you. Love more on those guys who painted a wonderful color on your life, forget those who makes a wreck on you.

It is our moral obligation to be aware of our emotions. Self-control is the key from self-destruction that will bring negative impact to others. If we will also learn to hate, we are also opening our door of being irrational.

P.S. Be thankful that they talk about you. It only means you are like a CELEBRITY - the GOSSIP GIRL. =D

It Will Always be Half-full

Part of our existence is to be involved in a difficult situation where the easiest thing to do is to run away and forget or merely wishing to have lacunar amnesia- the loss of memory about one specific event. Or if not, are you in a situation where the flow of energy around you isn’t accommodating to your senses? Are you in the same boat as I am? WELCOME ABOARD!!

At times I complain. I often become aware of the negative rather than the positive. I always feel the depression rather than the optimism of a situation. I even feel it in some people. Because of this, I miss a lot of good things in my life. I fall short to appreciate and give valuable meaning when something is unbearable like being unenthusiastic to go to work, having difficult people around, the inner struggle of missing my family and my old life, belly fats, my not so perfect eyesight, and so on. I let my perception draw close to the bad things. But just recently, I sat down and just close my eyes and remember the good things that have happened to me. Now I learn to value my work as I thought to myself, “ there are people who wished they have the job you currently have”, “ those people will definitely strengthen your inner values as they will always remind you that people are really unique”, “ eventhough you miss your family, they couldn’t be more proud of you that you have crossed the seas just to be where you are right now and that you have travelled international” , “be lucky you have that tummy as others are suffering from having ascites-accumulation of fluids in the abdominal cavity.”, “ be thankful for your eyes,they may not be the perfect eyes but remind yourself that there are a lot of blind people who daily kneeled to give them the sight that you have” and so on. I am now absorbing the true wisdom of the beauty of everything that is wrapped within it. Think the oyster as your struggle now,it may be ugly and stinky but within it, it can produce a beautiful pearl.