Don't Hate us Coz we're BEAUTIFUL

We really can’t please every person, even if we have done nothing against them. We also cannot appreciate everyone. But it is up to us on how to deal with them.

Even if there are people who don’t like us, we still need to treat them as a human. God created us in his like, so if we will compete with their unreasonable judgment on us, it’s not far that we are like them. We might not know what their reason is, but we all have the cause not to be like them for as long as our conscience is crystal clear. Maybe they have heard not quite fair stories about us but that’s the nature of humans, giving more importance on the bad stuffs. Let’s just say that we are all diverse, and our ways are unlike others. So it would be better if we will not take much of our time pretending to like them and just be casual. We must remember that in order to have a positive outlook in life, we must not be near of any negative source. If they are fond of judging, then let’s not take that away from them. But rather, consider it as a lifetime gift for these people. It is at sometimes good not to have everything, at least we have something to look forward to.

What matters is that we must at least not cloud our good perception without any reason and not to be like these people. Let’s be more grown-up and be more professional in civilized way. Let’s accept them as a challenge in strengthening our mindfulness, our attitude, and intellect especially on interpersonal and emotional. They still ought to be treated nice though, so if you think they need help then lend a hand. But don’t expect something in return from them. And let’s us not over analyze their attitude; they may perhaps have inner struggles no one can understand along with the reflection in their behavior.

Nevertheless, appreciate more on the people that love having you around as they won’t give any damn misinterpretation on your actions and verdicts. There are billions of people all over the world waiting to be befriended by a remarkable person like you. So don’t dwell on people who don’t like you. Love more on those guys who painted a wonderful color on your life, forget those who makes a wreck on you.

It is our moral obligation to be aware of our emotions. Self-control is the key from self-destruction that will bring negative impact to others. If we will also learn to hate, we are also opening our door of being irrational.

P.S. Be thankful that they talk about you. It only means you are like a CELEBRITY - the GOSSIP GIRL. =D

It Takes Two To Tango

One of the most easiest way to achieve what we want to achieve is by help. I’m not referring to any indecent proposal or the like but I am referring on sharing it with someone who also has the same aspiration like you, or should I say us. Have a friend who you can be your partner in your way to achieve lasting happiness.

Sharing stories with a friend is sometimes a whole lot better than shopping. Or better yet exchanging ideas and stories while shopping is just so awesome,right? So same thing goes to when you are with someone in your transformation. You’ll get to learn from your friend and vice versa. In this errand of mine, I share this with someone tso close to me. And it has more fun than working alone. We get to share our realizations and I have appreciated my apprehension that there are thousands of good things to talk about that would do good to myself rather than talking gibberish stuffs in life.

The beauty of life is all in our mind and deep within. If we will let our negative thoughts change its insights into optimism towards our surroundings, our life would be spectacular. Share your wonderful views to someone or to everyone, you might awaken their innate desire of achieving optimal bliss. So what are you waiting for? CALL A FRIEND!