Don't Hate us Coz we're BEAUTIFUL

We really can’t please every person, even if we have done nothing against them. We also cannot appreciate everyone. But it is up to us on how to deal with them.

Even if there are people who don’t like us, we still need to treat them as a human. God created us in his like, so if we will compete with their unreasonable judgment on us, it’s not far that we are like them. We might not know what their reason is, but we all have the cause not to be like them for as long as our conscience is crystal clear. Maybe they have heard not quite fair stories about us but that’s the nature of humans, giving more importance on the bad stuffs. Let’s just say that we are all diverse, and our ways are unlike others. So it would be better if we will not take much of our time pretending to like them and just be casual. We must remember that in order to have a positive outlook in life, we must not be near of any negative source. If they are fond of judging, then let’s not take that away from them. But rather, consider it as a lifetime gift for these people. It is at sometimes good not to have everything, at least we have something to look forward to.

What matters is that we must at least not cloud our good perception without any reason and not to be like these people. Let’s be more grown-up and be more professional in civilized way. Let’s accept them as a challenge in strengthening our mindfulness, our attitude, and intellect especially on interpersonal and emotional. They still ought to be treated nice though, so if you think they need help then lend a hand. But don’t expect something in return from them. And let’s us not over analyze their attitude; they may perhaps have inner struggles no one can understand along with the reflection in their behavior.

Nevertheless, appreciate more on the people that love having you around as they won’t give any damn misinterpretation on your actions and verdicts. There are billions of people all over the world waiting to be befriended by a remarkable person like you. So don’t dwell on people who don’t like you. Love more on those guys who painted a wonderful color on your life, forget those who makes a wreck on you.

It is our moral obligation to be aware of our emotions. Self-control is the key from self-destruction that will bring negative impact to others. If we will also learn to hate, we are also opening our door of being irrational.

P.S. Be thankful that they talk about you. It only means you are like a CELEBRITY - the GOSSIP GIRL. =D

Lost and Found

Life isn't like a laptop where you can just strike the back button or click undo then vwallah!!you are on your history!! If life is like that, then it's kinda lame.

Let me share you something from my experience.

Way back like 5 years ago, I can’t manage my temper. When I get mad, without second thought, I would shout and articulate offensive words. =( Lucky for me back then that nobody has filed a case against me, or else I might be the court’s favorite visitor. Whew! I always lead a team, so that’s why I was always in the end of my tether. But at one circumstance, I found my turning point with my attitude. Out of the blue I hurt someone, like physically. I stabbed him on his hand with my pen and so he was rushed to the school clinic because he fainted and was so pale like a paper. Then I knew I knocked a bone and a vein.. After that accident, I feel like everbody was against me and that they all hate me. At that time, i had jam-packed of regrets of being so stupid to act like a criminal. Having a temper tantrum is difficult to manage, i tell you. That’s how dim-witted I was when i got angry.

Though changed doesn’t happened overnight, I am still in my ride to control my anger. Indeed it is so difficult but if we have much perseverance, nothing is impossible. Now, I take time to breathe and I prefer to rationalize my point. I may have failed sometimes but I believe it is part of the process. And what really helped me is now is my journey in finding conscious awarenss and be more responsible with my attitude. And now that I am radiating love to my life, I have more peace. There may be a lot of challenges that would test my patience, but for as long as I believe I know where I stand, then it’s all that matters. As long as I don’t hurt anyone then it’s more than ok. If I need to confront someone then I will definitely do it in the name of professionalism if it really needs to be talked about. But occasionally, there are things that are better left unspoken though.

We may not be able to turn back the time like some movies do, but we can still make it right for as long we are alive. We can still do more good and dwell on doing the right thing in recompense of our faults.

Don't let darkness get into our nerves. Learn to breath and tell yourself to let go of that negativity as it won't do any better for you. Let's breath and don't forget to listen to yourself and ask what is rightful. There is no one who knows yourself better. Do what you think is truthful and don't let anger eat up the best of you.

When I LOST my temper, I FOUND my decision point. How about you? What’s your LOST AND FOUND?

Masalam