The most contagious yet pleasurable disease

Being positive gives us better opportunities to meet good people like having better friends, colleagues, boss and so on. Others mistakenly interpret the true meaning of happiness. We have people out there feels upbeat when they have more of something than the less somebody else has of it. Like because they are wealthy, they feel happy as they can buy all the material things they want. Yet, this isn’t the case as it is only a false happiness when we think that we are happy when we are better off than others. When we see people feel positive and joyful despite of their nothingness, it rubs off on us and we can be contaminated with their inner happiness from simple contentment. And if we can define true happiness, the more we can interact with others and easier for them to feel happier too.

The most challenging part being internally happy is when we are surrounded by our ‘not so type’ of people. But being highly motivated to achieve that inner bliss we can at any way resolve to maintain our positivity no matter how many waves of anion push you to shore, you will definitely have some positive effect in your surroundings. It may give you rough road but be persistent. Always remember that we all love happy positive people and happiness attracts more happiness, chain reaction. Be the carrier of the most contagious disease in the whole universe, BLISS!!

Don't Hate us Coz we're BEAUTIFUL

We really can’t please every person, even if we have done nothing against them. We also cannot appreciate everyone. But it is up to us on how to deal with them.

Even if there are people who don’t like us, we still need to treat them as a human. God created us in his like, so if we will compete with their unreasonable judgment on us, it’s not far that we are like them. We might not know what their reason is, but we all have the cause not to be like them for as long as our conscience is crystal clear. Maybe they have heard not quite fair stories about us but that’s the nature of humans, giving more importance on the bad stuffs. Let’s just say that we are all diverse, and our ways are unlike others. So it would be better if we will not take much of our time pretending to like them and just be casual. We must remember that in order to have a positive outlook in life, we must not be near of any negative source. If they are fond of judging, then let’s not take that away from them. But rather, consider it as a lifetime gift for these people. It is at sometimes good not to have everything, at least we have something to look forward to.

What matters is that we must at least not cloud our good perception without any reason and not to be like these people. Let’s be more grown-up and be more professional in civilized way. Let’s accept them as a challenge in strengthening our mindfulness, our attitude, and intellect especially on interpersonal and emotional. They still ought to be treated nice though, so if you think they need help then lend a hand. But don’t expect something in return from them. And let’s us not over analyze their attitude; they may perhaps have inner struggles no one can understand along with the reflection in their behavior.

Nevertheless, appreciate more on the people that love having you around as they won’t give any damn misinterpretation on your actions and verdicts. There are billions of people all over the world waiting to be befriended by a remarkable person like you. So don’t dwell on people who don’t like you. Love more on those guys who painted a wonderful color on your life, forget those who makes a wreck on you.

It is our moral obligation to be aware of our emotions. Self-control is the key from self-destruction that will bring negative impact to others. If we will also learn to hate, we are also opening our door of being irrational.

P.S. Be thankful that they talk about you. It only means you are like a CELEBRITY - the GOSSIP GIRL. =D

Happiness is a Career

We make our own happiness. True!

By nature, we cling to things. We easily get attached to people, material things, experience, etc. if we feel that our connection is so perfect and vibrant, we experience extreme glee. However,once that attachment or bond doesn’t go the way we wanted it to be, we easily get frustrated, depressed, sad, and sometimes we react socially unacceptable.

Our happiness doesn’t depend on other people, or anything.

We may be overjoyed with the people we meet, but it doesn’t mean that we owe our happiness to anyone. We may always have that sensation of being elated every time when being with them but, it is us who have the decision to be happy around them. It’s us and not them to decide for our happiness.

Otherwise, we may have met challenging people that give us frustration and hard time but it doesn’t mean that we can’t be happy anymore. They are just there to strengthen our relationship with our self, not to anyone but to our self.

Everything starts within us. As they always say, “look at the brighter picture”, we will just then consider these challenging people as springboard to a better us. Somehow they have helped us develop more our patience, understanding, unconditional love and so on. By then, we won’t have to worry in dealing with those sorts of fellas.

Happiness is our choice to make, not from others. We have different sense of happiness. My happiness may not be happiness for you. Who cares, as long as we don’t hurt anyone then it won’t matter. Right? I am happy when I get to sleep 8 hours a day. Others consider it a waste of time sleeping more than 6 hours. That’s how I chose to be happy, this is my preference.. That’s my contentment, I am happy to be able to sleep my 8 hours. Having that long rest for me will give me lasting joy. Not just for a day, but for the coming days as i gave enough time for my cells to regenerate. =) When we are convient, we are pleased. And so we are blissful.

Money, influence and luxury are not tantamount with happiness. Yet, we are aware - it doesn’t mean we live in delight if we don’t have them. But it also doesn’t mean we are completely happy if we do have them- that they don’t bring us lasting happiness on their own. They are all impermanent.