The most contagious yet pleasurable disease

Being positive gives us better opportunities to meet good people like having better friends, colleagues, boss and so on. Others mistakenly interpret the true meaning of happiness. We have people out there feels upbeat when they have more of something than the less somebody else has of it. Like because they are wealthy, they feel happy as they can buy all the material things they want. Yet, this isn’t the case as it is only a false happiness when we think that we are happy when we are better off than others. When we see people feel positive and joyful despite of their nothingness, it rubs off on us and we can be contaminated with their inner happiness from simple contentment. And if we can define true happiness, the more we can interact with others and easier for them to feel happier too.

The most challenging part being internally happy is when we are surrounded by our ‘not so type’ of people. But being highly motivated to achieve that inner bliss we can at any way resolve to maintain our positivity no matter how many waves of anion push you to shore, you will definitely have some positive effect in your surroundings. It may give you rough road but be persistent. Always remember that we all love happy positive people and happiness attracts more happiness, chain reaction. Be the carrier of the most contagious disease in the whole universe, BLISS!!

Don't Hate us Coz we're BEAUTIFUL

We really can’t please every person, even if we have done nothing against them. We also cannot appreciate everyone. But it is up to us on how to deal with them.

Even if there are people who don’t like us, we still need to treat them as a human. God created us in his like, so if we will compete with their unreasonable judgment on us, it’s not far that we are like them. We might not know what their reason is, but we all have the cause not to be like them for as long as our conscience is crystal clear. Maybe they have heard not quite fair stories about us but that’s the nature of humans, giving more importance on the bad stuffs. Let’s just say that we are all diverse, and our ways are unlike others. So it would be better if we will not take much of our time pretending to like them and just be casual. We must remember that in order to have a positive outlook in life, we must not be near of any negative source. If they are fond of judging, then let’s not take that away from them. But rather, consider it as a lifetime gift for these people. It is at sometimes good not to have everything, at least we have something to look forward to.

What matters is that we must at least not cloud our good perception without any reason and not to be like these people. Let’s be more grown-up and be more professional in civilized way. Let’s accept them as a challenge in strengthening our mindfulness, our attitude, and intellect especially on interpersonal and emotional. They still ought to be treated nice though, so if you think they need help then lend a hand. But don’t expect something in return from them. And let’s us not over analyze their attitude; they may perhaps have inner struggles no one can understand along with the reflection in their behavior.

Nevertheless, appreciate more on the people that love having you around as they won’t give any damn misinterpretation on your actions and verdicts. There are billions of people all over the world waiting to be befriended by a remarkable person like you. So don’t dwell on people who don’t like you. Love more on those guys who painted a wonderful color on your life, forget those who makes a wreck on you.

It is our moral obligation to be aware of our emotions. Self-control is the key from self-destruction that will bring negative impact to others. If we will also learn to hate, we are also opening our door of being irrational.

P.S. Be thankful that they talk about you. It only means you are like a CELEBRITY - the GOSSIP GIRL. =D

Leave Your Past Behind

“Many people with childhood scars are hurt mostly by what somebody said to them or about them, more than what was done to them. It is an absolute fallacy if we think we are better off by motivating ourselves to achieve our goals with nasty comments, name calling and other negative motivational techniques. Sing these negative techniques may mean that sometimes we will win the battle of achieving a specific short term goal, but we will lose the war-we won’t be able to maintain a happy motivated disposition if we continually put ourselves down. When we learn to positively motivate ourselves we will not only win the battle and achieve our short-term goals, but we will win the war and be an upbeat, motivated, energetic, ball of fire-long term. “Excerpt from 7 Ancient Keys to Happiness – a 90-day Lesson-a-day Guide In Achieving Inner Bliss

We all have bad childhood experiences and memories that up to now is still haunting us. But we must not forget that we need a positive motivation to endure what we really want to happen in our life. Upon contemplating on my experiences back when I was child, the memoirs that surface doesn’t help me to feel better. I made a choice in thinking happy thoughts instead as it give me happy energy to keep going everyday. I affirm to myself that I will not let any distasteful judgment stain my advocacy in making a great change in my life.

It Takes Two To Tango

One of the most easiest way to achieve what we want to achieve is by help. I’m not referring to any indecent proposal or the like but I am referring on sharing it with someone who also has the same aspiration like you, or should I say us. Have a friend who you can be your partner in your way to achieve lasting happiness.

Sharing stories with a friend is sometimes a whole lot better than shopping. Or better yet exchanging ideas and stories while shopping is just so awesome,right? So same thing goes to when you are with someone in your transformation. You’ll get to learn from your friend and vice versa. In this errand of mine, I share this with someone tso close to me. And it has more fun than working alone. We get to share our realizations and I have appreciated my apprehension that there are thousands of good things to talk about that would do good to myself rather than talking gibberish stuffs in life.

The beauty of life is all in our mind and deep within. If we will let our negative thoughts change its insights into optimism towards our surroundings, our life would be spectacular. Share your wonderful views to someone or to everyone, you might awaken their innate desire of achieving optimal bliss. So what are you waiting for? CALL A FRIEND!

You Listen, You WILL Talk

Have you experienced just to sit and listen to yourself ? Can you hear some sort of whispering inside your head? What are they telling you? Is it benefits you? Does it makes you even more confused?Or both? Let’s identify these low tones ringing in your thoughts.

Say, you are in an fight with a close friend of yours. In the middle of the heat, you have alleged offending words to him and he has thrown same on you. After the argument, when everything is in its cool, you can’t get rid of the disagreement you had. It keeps on buzzing in your head and you can no longer ignore it. And so you were in your deep thoughts. As you sit and reflect, you heard voices in your head saying “..what’s done is done. You hurt him, he hurt you. Just let it go.. just let it be the way it happened. Just forget the memory and live on..move on”. Then in the midst of silence there is another voice saying “ what’s done is done, you both hurt each other. But even though he busted on you,you still owe him an apology. Go and talk to him. You may not be able to undo and delete the hurt from the incident but you can make it right. Just go to him and talk..”

So, can you differentiate now the voices? Hmmmmmm let’s call the first voice as the noisy and the latter the quiet voice. For now,let’s focus more on our quiet voice.

In every difficult situation we are into, usually we hold our to our spiritual belief,especially to GOd. Yes, it is very powerful. But it would be more powerful if we also hold on to our self. Going into the deepest part of our heart, there we can find all the answers of our emotions. Who do we find there?..the quiet voice or the voice of our soul. When we can turn on that voice, then we won’t be terrified or anxious to face every problem especially when it often disturbs the flow of calmness of our mind.

The quiet voice will guide us to the bright path where ultimate happiness awaits. There will be times that we believe it is so hard to do what the voice is telling us to do. But we need to trust that voice coz it’s the same thing as trusting our self. He knows what’s best for us. He knows what are the rightful actions and decisions and he will encourage us that we can really choose the right choice. We just need to listen deep and then we will be on our full potential with soaring self-esteem.

I will be sharing you more on the quiet voice inside us on my next post. Masalam =D