Be the superlative of BEST

I would just like to share a beautiful excerpt from my read.
“There is a big secret to life, listen carefully and you will understand. Whenever we do or say anything it is because on some level of our consciousness we really want to do or say the thing. Whatever we really want to do, we will achieve. This means if we really want to change we will. The secret is learning how to want to do it.” – 7 Ancient Keys to Happiness
It keeps me thinking the consequences of my every action whether it is justifiable. Whenever I see my self caught reflecting, somehow, I feel a bit more disappointed. Why? Because it takes a lot if effort to become the person who I really want to be, the ultimate me. I am saddened by the fact that I still become nasty around people I don’t like but I am working on it though. It’s just that I still think awful about them. I know I am generally nice but there are just some times where I bark and bite.
We aren’t perfect and we have our ups and downs as humans. But what makes us more rational is how to handle the low’s of our self. And I have learned that one way to handle it is to plan ahead. We should ask our self “ what shall I look like when I get negative feeling?” . We can make a comparison of our self in different emotional struggle. Differentiate yourself when you are happy and sad. Who gives you more clear judgment from those two? If we will keep on placing ourself in a picture where we are happy and positive, any low points of our self can be surpassed.

The most contagious yet pleasurable disease

Being positive gives us better opportunities to meet good people like having better friends, colleagues, boss and so on. Others mistakenly interpret the true meaning of happiness. We have people out there feels upbeat when they have more of something than the less somebody else has of it. Like because they are wealthy, they feel happy as they can buy all the material things they want. Yet, this isn’t the case as it is only a false happiness when we think that we are happy when we are better off than others. When we see people feel positive and joyful despite of their nothingness, it rubs off on us and we can be contaminated with their inner happiness from simple contentment. And if we can define true happiness, the more we can interact with others and easier for them to feel happier too.

The most challenging part being internally happy is when we are surrounded by our ‘not so type’ of people. But being highly motivated to achieve that inner bliss we can at any way resolve to maintain our positivity no matter how many waves of anion push you to shore, you will definitely have some positive effect in your surroundings. It may give you rough road but be persistent. Always remember that we all love happy positive people and happiness attracts more happiness, chain reaction. Be the carrier of the most contagious disease in the whole universe, BLISS!!